How to Pray When You're Too Tired to Pray
Key Takeaways
- Exhaustion at the end of the day does not indicate a weak faith, as even Jesus acknowledged that the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
- Short, plain prayers like "God, I'm here" or "God, help me" are fully heard and accepted by God just like long, polished prayers.
- Charlotte Elliott overcame her feelings of uselessness due to chronic illness by writing down a simple prayer that eventually became the famous hymn "Just As I Am."
- Jesus understands human exhaustion firsthand, having experienced deep physical fatigue and sleeping through a storm in a boat during His earthly ministry.
- Falling asleep mid-prayer is nothing to apologize for, as it simply means you are falling asleep while talking to your Heavenly Father.
Some nights the day ends and you have nothing left, and the prayer you meant to pray never comes. Learn why a short, plain prayer counts with God, and what Jesus said about willing spirits in worn-out bodies.
There are stretches when the day finally winds down and you know you should pray, and you have no energy left for it. The words won't come. The moment you close your eyes, your mind wanders off to the grocery list or something your boss said that afternoon. You start to wonder if there's something wrong with your faith. Usually the answer is simpler. You're worn out.
This episode opens with Charlotte Elliott, who had been sick so long she'd almost forgotten what a strong day felt like. Her brother, a minister, was raising money for a school, and the whole family went to help. Charlotte was too weak to go. Lying alone at home, an old accusation came back: she was useless and a burden, and if she couldn't even help with a fundraiser, God probably had no use for her either.
Scripture speaks to that exhaustion with more tenderness than most of us expect. On the night before the cross, Jesus asked His closest friends to stay awake and pray with Him in Gethsemane, and He came back to find them asleep. Matthew 26:41 records what He said: "Keep watch and pray, so that you will not give in to temptation. For the spirit is willing, but the body is weak." He looked at grown men who couldn't keep their eyes open on the worst night of His life, and He put His finger on the right cause. Their spirit was willing. Their flesh had run out. There's no contempt anywhere in the diagnosis. Jesus knew what tired felt like, and He was hours from the cross when He said it.
So prayer when you're wiped out can be short and plain, and God still hears every word of it. It can be one line. God, I'm here. Or, God, help me. That is a prayer, and He receives it the same way He receives the polished ones. Some of the best praying you'll ever do will be short and direct. Peter, sinking into the water, managed three words. Bart shares his own version of this, the nights he starts praying in bed and never finishes the sentence, and the years he spent waking up feeling like he'd stood God up. Charlotte's answer came the same way. With no strength and nothing to bring, she reached for pen and paper and wrote one line of a prayer that became the hymn "Just As I Am."
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER:
- Why exhaustion at prayer time usually says nothing about the state of your faith
- What Jesus said in Gethsemane about willing spirits in worn-out bodies
- A one-line prayer you can pray tonight when you have nothing else left
God has a long habit of using people who come to Him with nothing left but themselves. Say your one line tonight, and let Him handle the rest of it while you sleep.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What should I do if I am too tired to pray at night?
Do not skip prayer or feel guilty; instead, offer a short, one-line prayer like "God, I'm here" and let Him handle the rest while you sleep.
How did Charlotte Elliott write the hymn Just As I Am?
Confined to her bed and feeling useless due to chronic illness, Charlotte remembered a preacher's words that she could come to God just as she was, prompting her to write down the simple poem that became the beloved hymn.
What did Jesus say about prayer and exhaustion in Gethsemane?
In Matthew 26:41, Jesus told His disciples to keep watch and pray so they would not give in to temptation, noting that "the spirit is willing, but the body is weak."
Does God care about the length of my prayers?
No, God does not grade prayers on their length. Short, direct prayers like Peter sinking in the water or a simple whispered phrase are received by God with the exact same care as long prayers.
Charlotte Elliott had been sick for so long, she'd
Bart Leger:almost forgotten what a strong day felt like. For years, her
Bart Leger:body had run on empty, and getting out of bed was its own
Bart Leger:battle. On this particular day, the whole family was out doing
Bart Leger:something good. Her brother, a minister, was raising money for
Bart Leger:a school, and everyone had gone to help, everyone but Charlotte.
Bart Leger:She was too weak to come, left at home while the people she
Bart Leger:loved did the work. Lying there alone, an old accusation crept
Bart Leger:back in. She was useless, a burden to everyone.
Bart Leger:she figured God had no use for her either. We'll come back to
Bart Leger:what she did from that bed, but
Bart Leger:first, welcome to Daily Devotions for Busy Lives. I'm
Bart Leger:Bart Leger. There are nights I start praying in bed and never
Bart Leger:finish the sentence. I'll be partway through telling God
Bart Leger:about something that happened during the day, or somebody in
Bart Leger:the church that needs help, and the next thing I know, the alarm
Bart Leger:in the morning is going off. For years, that bothered me more
Bart Leger:than it should have. I'd wake up feeling like I'd stood God up,
Bart Leger:like the one part of the day that mattered most was the part
Bart Leger:I couldn't stay awake for. And I'm a pastor. If anybody ought
Bart Leger:to be able to hold a conversation with God at the end
Bart Leger:of a long day, you'd think it would be me. Some nights, I just
Bart Leger:can't. Maybe you know that feeling. The day finally winds
Bart Leger:down and you've got nothing left.
Bart Leger:And you start to wonder if there's something wrong with
Bart Leger:your faith. Usually, the answer's simpler than you think.
Bart Leger:You're worn out. Jesus ran into that exact situation with his
Bart Leger:closest friends. And he cut them a bit of slack, but he was
Bart Leger:pretty direct. It was the night before the cross. He took Peter
Bart Leger:and two of the other disciples deeper in the garden of
Bart Leger:Gethsemane and asked them to stay awake and pray with him. He
Bart Leger:came back and found them asleep. He had asked for one thing on
Bart Leger:the worst night of his life, and they couldn't even stay awake
Bart Leger:for it. Listen to what he said to them in Matthew 26, 41. Keep
Bart Leger:watch and pray, so that you will not give in to temptation. For
Bart Leger:the spirit is willing, but the body is weak. Jesus looked at
Bart Leger:grown men who couldn't keep their eyes open for him, and he
Bart Leger:put his finger on the right cause. The spirit was willing,
Bart Leger:but the flesh had run out of gas. He gave them the diagnosis. He
Bart Leger:knew what tired felt like. This is the same Jesus who preached
Bart Leger:and healed until he slept so deeply in a boat that his
Bart Leger:disciples had to shake him awake in the middle of a storm. he'd
Bart Leger:eaten the last meal with his friends, and he was hours away
Bart Leger:from the cross. When he talks about a weak body, he's talking
Bart Leger:about something he had lived himself. So here's what I want
Bart Leger:you to think about tonight. Prayer, when you're wiped out,
Bart Leger:can be short and sweet, and God still hears every word of it. It
Bart Leger:can be one line, God, I'm here, or God help me. That's a prayer,
Bart Leger:and he receives it the same way he receives the long, polished
Bart Leger:ones. Some of the best praying that you'll ever do will be
Bart Leger:short and direct. Think about the prayers in Scripture that
Bart Leger:got answered really fast. Peter, sinking in the water, managed
Bart Leger:three words. Charlotte remembered something, and all he
Bart Leger:got out was God be merciful to me, a sinner. Nobody scored
Bart Leger:those prayers for length. Charlotte remembered something a
Bart Leger:preacher had told her years before, back when she first came
Bart Leger:to Christ. She had asked him how someone like her could come to
Bart Leger:God, and he said she had nothing worth bringing anyway. She could
Bart Leger:only come just as she was, so that's what she did. Too tired
Bart Leger:to do anything else, she reached for pen and paper and wrote it
Bart Leger:down as a prayer, Just as I am, without one plea. She had no
Bart Leger:strength to offer and no good deed to point to, just herself
Bart Leger:and her need. That poem became a hymn, Just as I am, and it has
Bart Leger:drawn more people to God than she could have ever helped at
Bart Leger:any fundraiser. Look at what Charlotte had to work with that
Bart Leger:afternoon. No strength, nothing to bring. She wrote one line of
Bart Leger:a prayer from her bed, and God did more with it than he would
Bart Leger:have done with a full day of her running errands for the school.
Bart Leger:God has a long habit of using people who come to him with
Bart Leger:nothing left for themselves. Here's today's challenge.
Bart Leger:Tonight, when you get into bed and you're too tired to pray,
Bart Leger:don't skip it and don't apologize for it. Just say the
Bart Leger:one line to God that you can manage. God, I'm here. That's
Bart Leger:the whole prayer. If you fall asleep before you finish, then
Bart Leger:you've fallen asleep talking with the Father, and that's a
Bart Leger:good way to end the day. Father, thank you that you know what
Bart Leger:tired feels like. You made these bodies, and you know exactly how
Bart Leger:much they can take before they give out. For everyone listening
Bart Leger:who gets to the end of the day with nothing left, receive the
Bart Leger:small prayers. Take the half sentence and the one line
Bart Leger:whispered in the dark. Remind them that you aren't measuring
Bart Leger:their words or grading their effort. Give them rest and let
Bart Leger:them wake up knowing you never left the room. In Jesus' name,
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Bart Leger:Remember, a tired prayer is still a prayer. Say your one
Bart Leger:line tonight. Let God handle the rest of it while you sleep. Come
Bart Leger:back next time for more encouragement to help you live
Bart Leger:grounded in God's truth. Until then, God bless, and have a
Bart Leger:great day.