Jan. 6, 2026

Fighting Temptation When No One is Watching

Fighting Temptation When No One is Watching

Struggling with secret habits and temptations no one else knows about? In this episode, learn how God faithfully provides a way out of every temptation, and why you never have to fight your private battles alone.

Struggling with secret habits and temptations no one else knows about? In this episode, learn how God faithfully provides a way out of every temptation, and why you never have to fight your private battles alone.

Have you ever felt like your biggest spiritual battles happen when no one is watching?

It's easy to look put together in public, at church, at work, with friends, while quietly wrestling with things you've never told anyone. Over time, those secret struggles start to feel heavier, and you wonder if you're the only one fighting this hard or if God has somehow run out of patience with you.

In this episode, we look at 1 Corinthians 10:13 and the story of Billy Graham's "Modesto Manifesto," a set of guardrails he and his team created in 1948 to protect themselves from the temptations that had destroyed other ministers. You'll see that God doesn't just forgive sin after the fact; He actively provides a way out before you fall, if you're willing to look for the door and walk through it.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL LEARN:

  1. Why the temptations you face are not unique to you, and how that truth brings both comfort and hope
  2. How God's "way out" often shows up in practical boundaries and humble choices made long before the heat of the moment
  3. The power of bringing your secret struggle into the light with one safe, trusted person

 

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A young evangelist is suddenly in the spotlight. Billy

 

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Graham is filling tents and auditoriums and traveling from

 

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city to city. He's staying in hotels surrounded by attention

 

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and opportunity and all the quiet temptations that come with

 

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it. In 1948, he and his team stopped in Modesto, California,

 

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and while they were there, they made a list of what had taken

 

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other preachers down—money, sex, and pride. Then, they do

 

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something unusual for ambitious young men. They decide to tie

 

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their own hands with strict boundaries. No being alone with

 

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women who aren't their wives. No fuzzy finances. No exaggerating

 

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numbers. In a world that says, trust yourself, you're strong

 

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enough, why would they choose to limit themselves before anything

 

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had even gone wrong?

 

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Welcome to Daily Devotions for Busy Lives. I am Bart Leger, and

 

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today we're talking about those moments when no one is watching,

 

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when no one would know what you clicked on, what you poured,

 

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what you bought, or what you hid. Jesus knows all about

 

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temptations, and so did the Apostle Paul. In 1 Corinthians

 

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10.13, he gives us a promise concerning temptations. The

 

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temptations in your life are no different from what others

 

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experience, and God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation

 

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to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will

 

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show you a way out so that you can endure. There's a whole lot

 

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of comfort packed into that verse, and I believe a lot of

 

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challenge, too. First, the comfort. The temptations in your

 

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life are no different from what others experience. That means

 

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you're not unusual. Whatever you're wrestling with in secret

 

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could be anger, lust, greed, jealousy, maybe addiction, or

 

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bitterness. You're not the first person to face it, and you're

 

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not disqualified from God's help because your struggle feels

 

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shameful. Secondly, the promise. God is faithful. He will not

 

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allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. Now, that

 

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doesn't mean that the temptation won't feel strong. It means God

 

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has already measured it against what he knows you can handle

 

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with his help. He's not setting you up to fail. Third, the

 

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provision. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so

 

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that you can endure. Notice, he doesn't say he'll remove the

 

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temptation. He says he'll show you a way out. There's always a

 

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door, but you have to be looking for it, and you have to be

 

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willing to walk through it. Here's where it gets practical.

 

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The way out usually doesn't appear in the heat of the moment.

 

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At least, we don't notice it, maybe. It appears before the

 

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moment, in the boundaries you set, in the accountability you

 

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invite, and the habits you build when no one's watching. That's

 

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exactly what Billy Graham and his team understood in Modesto.

 

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Instead of waiting for a crisis, Billy Graham and his team

 

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treated 1 Corinthians 10.13 as true, assuming temptations would

 

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come, and seeing wise guardrails as God's way out. Those private

 

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decisions in Modesto helped keep Graham's public ministry clean

 

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for decades. The real battle wasn't on the stage. It was in

 

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hotel hallways, closed-door meetings, and financial reports

 

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where no one was watching. His life reminds us that God is

 

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faithful to provide an exit in every temptation. But most of

 

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the time, that exit looks like humble, practical choices we

 

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make long before the moment hits. So, what does that look like for

 

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you? Maybe the way out is putting your phone in another

 

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room at night so you're not tempted to scroll into dark

 

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places. Maybe it's setting up an accountability app or telling

 

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one trusted friend about your struggle. Maybe it's not keeping

 

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certain things in the house. Maybe it's leaving a

 

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conversation, a website, or a relationship before it crosses a

 

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line. These aren't signs of weakness. I believe they're

 

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signs of true wisdom. You're not trusting yourself too much.

 

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You're trusting God enough to take the exit He provides. And

 

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here's something else. You don't have to fight alone. Part of

 

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God's way out is often other people. James 5.16 says, Confess

 

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your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may

 

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be healed. And there's power in bringing your secret struggle

 

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into the light with one safe person. Because sin loves the

 

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dark, but it loses power when it's exposed to the light.

 

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Here's today's challenge. Think about one area where you're

 

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fighting a private battle. Something you haven't told

 

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anyone. Something that tends to pull you down when no one's

 

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watching. And today, do two things. First, ask God to show

 

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you one practical way out. One boundary. One change. Or one

 

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step you can take before the temptation hits. Write it down

 

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if you need to. And then secondly, consider telling one

 

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trusted person. Not the whole world. Just one safe friend.

 

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Maybe mentor or pastor who can pray for you and check in with

 

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you. You don't have to be perfect to be forgiven. But you

 

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also don't have to stay stuck. God is faithful. He will show

 

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you a way out. Lord, you know our secret battles. The ones

 

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that no one else sees. Thank you that your word says temptation

 

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is common and that you're faithful. Help us take the exits

 

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you provide. The boundaries. The accountability. The humble

 

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choices that protect our hearts. Give us the courage to bring our

 

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struggles into the light and trust you with the outcome. In

 

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Jesus' name, amen. If this episode encouraged you, would

 

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you consider sharing it with someone who might be fighting

 

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their own private battle? Just send them the link from the show

 

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notes. They may need this reminder today. Thanks for

 

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joining me today on Daily Devotions for Busy Lives.

 

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Remember, God always provides a way out of temptation. You never

 

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have to fight your private battles alone. Come back next

 

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time for more encouragement to help you live grounded in God's

 

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truth. Until then, God bless and have a great day.