What to Do When You're Changing and Nobody Can See It Yet

Your track record is working against you. The people around you are still responding to who you were. In this episode, discover what Philippians 1:6 says about the work God started, and why He doesn't need anyone else's vote to finish it.
Rusty came out of prison with a changed heart and a track record that said otherwise. He'd grown up in southeast Oklahoma with a county sheriff for a father and a schoolteacher for a mother. He ended up in prison anyway. He came to faith through a man named Trevor while he was inside, and when he got out, the people he loved most still had no reason to trust him.
So he got to work. He started paying off roughly $30,000 in fines and court costs. He made the phone calls even when nobody picked up. He kept going back to the people he'd hurt and telling them things were different. The trust came back slowly, one relationship at a time, over years.
One of the loneliest experiences a person can have is changing while everyone around you is still responding to who you used to be. The track record works against you. The skepticism follows you into the room. I've seen this with people who came to faith later in life, some of them with reputations in town that made everyone skeptical. They'd start coming to church and you could almost hear it: just wait, it won't last, nobody changes that drastically. Sometimes they heard it out loud.
That loneliness is there, and it deserves to be named. And this episode speaks directly to the person in it.
Philippians 1:6 is a verse I've had on a large canvas in my office for years. It says: God who began the good work within you will continue his work until it is finally finished. The word Paul uses for "certain" in the Greek means persuaded, convinced beyond doubt. Paul is staking his expectation on it.
God started the work. He'll finish it. His completion of that work is not dependent on anyone else's vote.
Through Rusty's story and Philippians 1:6, this episode makes the case that transformation happens in real time, one day at a time, in the absence of anyone else's acknowledgment. Rusty kept showing up and paying what he owed and going back to the people he'd hurt. And in April 2023, he walked back through the front door of the very prison where God had started working on him, this time holding keys to every gate in the unit as the Prison Fellowship Academy manager.
God restored everything. That's what Rusty said. His kids, his parents, his grandma, everyone he'd hurt. The work had been going the whole time, even when no one could see it yet.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER:
- Why the skepticism of the people around you is not a measure of whether the transformation in you is taking hold
- What the Greek word behind Paul's certainty in Philippians 1:6 reveals about how settled God is on finishing the work He started
- One concrete practice for persisting in change when no one around you has acknowledged it yet
God who began the good work in you will finish it. Keep going.
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Rusty grew up with a county sheriff for a father and
Speak:a school teacher for a mother in southeast Oklahoma, which is
Speak:about the last family background you'd expect to produce someone
Speak:who ended up in prison. But that's where he ended up. Years
Speak:of choice that took him further and further from everything he'd
Speak:been given. He came to faith in Christ through a man named
Speak:Trevor, but by then the damage was done. The people he loved
Speak:most didn't trust him. He'd given them no reason to. He came
Speak:out of prison with a changed heart and a track record that
Speak:said otherwise. He started paying off fines and court costs
Speak:roughly $30, 000 He kept showing up and he kept making phone
Speak:calls even when nobody picked up. He kept going back to the people
Speak:he'd hurt and telling them things were different, even when
Speak:they had no reason to believe him. The trust came back slowly,
Speak:one relationship at a time, over years. Then, in April 2023,
Speak:Rusty walked through the front door of Dick Connors
Speak:Correctional Center in Oklahoma as a free man. This time as the
Speak:Prison Fellowship Academy manager, the same facility where
Speak:God had started working on him. He said that first morning,
Speak:sitting in the parking lot, he wasn't sure he was the right
Speak:person for the job. We'll come back to what happened when he
Speak:walked through that door, but first...
Speak:Welcome to Daily Devotions for Busy Lives. I'm Bart Leger. Over
Speak:the years, I've seen people come to faith later in life, some of
Speak:them with reputations in town that made everyone skeptical.
Speak:They'd start coming to church, and you could almost hear what
Speak:people were thinking. Just wait. It won't last. Nobody changes
Speak:that drastically. And sometimes, those new heard it out loud. The
Speak:skepticism followed them into the pew. Things like that can
Speak:kill your motivation. You know something's different. You're
Speak:changing and you're growing, even if you can't fully explain
Speak:it yet. And the people around you are still responding to who
Speak:you were. Here's what Philippians 1-6 says, And I am
Speak:certain that who began the good work within you, will continue
Speak:His work until it is finally finished on the day when Jesus
Speak:Christ returns. I have that verse on a large canvas in my
Speak:office. It's been on my wall for years, and I look at it often.
Speak:Paul wrote those words to people he loved, and the word he uses
Speak:for certain in the Greek is a word that means persuaded,
Speak:convinced beyond doubt. Paul is persuaded of it, settled on it,
Speak:and he's staking his reputation on God started the work, and
Speak:He'll finish it. The people around you may not be able to
Speak:see what's happening yet, and some of them may be watching
Speak:with arms crossed, waiting to see if this time it takes. And
Speak:that's all right. God's completion of the work in you is
Speak:not dependent on anyone else's vote. And that matters because
Speak:the temptation, when everyone around you is skeptical, is to
Speak:look for their approval as the measure of whether you've
Speak:changed. You keep waiting for someone to notice. You want
Speak:someone to say they see it. And when nobody does, you start
Speak:wondering if the change had taken hold, if you imagined the
Speak:whole thing. You didn't. Because God began the work if you
Speak:trusted Christ as your Savior. Because He's still working. What
Speak:when the trust hadn't come back is the practical aspect of this
Speak:verse. He kept showing up and making the phone calls. He kept
Speak:paying what he owed and giving back to the people he'd hurt.
Speak:The transformation was happening in real time, one day at a time,
Speak:in the absence of anyone else's acknowledgement. And years later,
Speak:when the trust came back, it came back because the work had
Speak:been going the whole time. The work God's doing in you has been
Speak:there all along. The fact that it's not visible yet doesn't
Speak:make it less true. On his first day in his new role, an officer
Speak:handed Rusty a set of keys. Keys to every gate in the unit. Every
Speak:door. He said it this way. Here I am, an ex-incarcerated person
Speak:with a set of keys to the whole unit. He sat in a class full of
Speak:Prison Fellowship Academy graduates that morning and
Speak:started crying. He knew he was in the right place. And then he
Speak:said this.
Speak:Here's what I want you to hear in that. Rusty didn't wait for
Speak:his family to believe in him before he started becoming
Speak:someone worth believing in. He kept going when the trust wasn't
Speak:there yet and the track record was working against him. God was
Speak:completing the work before anyone around him could see it
Speak:clearly enough to trust it. Philippians 1.6 says,
Speak:doesn't need everyone else to agree with what he's doing in
Speak:you to keep doing it. Keep going. The work is happening even when
Speak:nobody's acknowledged it yet. Here's today's challenge. Name
Speak:one place where the change in you is there but unrecognized
Speak:and write it down. Then pray Philippians 1.6 over yourself
Speak:today out loud as a declaration over the work God started. He
Speak:who began this work will bring it to completion. That's a
Speak:promise God made. Lord, you see the people who are becoming
Speak:someone different while everyone around them is waiting to see if
Speak:it lasts. You know the work you started and you're finishing it.
Speak:Give them the ability to keep going when no one is noticing
Speak:yet and let them trust that what you began you complete. In Jesus
Speak:name, amen. If you need prayer today, I'd love to hear from you.
Speak:You can leave me a voicemail at dailydevotionsforbusylives.com
Speak:I listen to everyone and it would be an honor to pray for
Speak:you by name. Thanks for joining me on Daily Devotions for Busy
Speak:Lives. Remember, God who began the good work in you will finish
Speak:it. Keep going. Come back next time for more encouragement to
Speak:help you live grounded in God's truth. Until then, God bless and
Speak:have a great day.




