What to Do When God Closes the Door You Were Counting On
The door you prayed for closed. Now what? Paul had a plan to preach in Asia, and God said no twice before redirecting him to Macedonia. This episode walks through what to do when a closed door leaves you wondering about yourself or about God.
The door you prayed for closed. Now what? Paul had a plan to preach in Asia, and God said no twice before redirecting him to Macedonia. This episode walks through what to do when a closed door leaves you wondering about yourself or about God.
You prayed for that door, and you built your life around the assumption it was going to open. Then it closed, and you were left standing there trying to figure out what it means about you or about God.
That is where Paul finds himself in Acts 16.
He has a good, strategic plan. He is going to take the gospel into the Roman province of Asia. Then the Holy Spirit says no. So Paul pivots and tries Bithynia instead. The Spirit of Jesus says no to that one too. Two closed doors in a row from the God who called him into ministry in the first place. Paul and his team end up in Troas, a port city, with no clear next step. That night Paul has a vision of a man from Macedonia pleading with him to come and help. And Paul goes.
That redirect led to the gospel entering Europe. It led to Lydia, the first recorded European believer, and to some of the most fruitful chapters of Paul's ministry. None of it was Plan A.
In this episode, we follow the story of Elana Duffy, a soldier who had worked her entire adult life to earn a place in an elite Army intelligence unit. A traumatic brain injury ended her career almost overnight. She fought the medical retirement for as long as she could. When she finally stopped fighting the closed door and started paying attention to what was in front of her, she realized there were other veterans stuck in the same kind of limbo. She eventually co-founded Pathfinder, a platform that now helps veterans find resources and connection during their own hardest seasons. The career she fought to keep is gone. The mission she has now is reaching people she never could have reached from inside her old unit.
Paul's closed doors were not a failure of his calling. They were the method God used to deliver him to the people He actually wanted him to reach. That is worth understanding before you assume a closed door is punishment.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER:
- How to tell the difference between a closed door that calls for more faith and one that calls for a change of direction
- What Paul's experience in Acts 16 teaches us about God's leading when the map stops working
- Practical ways to respond when a door you were counting on slams shut
Sometimes God's no is not a rejection of you. It may be the way He protects you from a road that would have led somewhere worse, or redirects you toward a room full of people you would have never reached otherwise. The closed door is rarely the end of the story. It is often the start of a better one.
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Elena Duffy had worked her entire adult life to earn
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her spot. She was serving in an elite army intelligence unit.
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Fewer than ten people, handpicked, doing work that
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mattered. It was the honor of a lifetime. And she loved the
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mission and she loved who she was when she put on the uniform.
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Then came the injury. A traumatic brain injury ended her
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career almost overnight. The army told her she was being
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medically retired. The unit she had given everything to join
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would carry on without And she refused to accept it. She fought
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the retirement and fought the paperwork. She kept telling
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herself that if she just pushed hard enough, this door would not
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close. This could not be how it ended. But the door closed
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anyway.
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life she never wanted. With a purpose she could no longer
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fulfill and wondering who she was without the mission that had
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defined her. we'll come back to what Elena did next. But
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first, welcome to Daily Devotions for Busy Lives. I'm
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Bart Leger. A closed door from God can be one of the most
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disorienting experiences a believer goes through. You
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prayed for that door and you built your life around the
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assumption it was going to open. Then it closed. Now you're left
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trying to figure out what happened. Did I miss God or am I
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being punished for something? Here's what I want you to hear
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A closed door from God is rarely a punishment. It's almost
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always what we would call a redirect. And the place he's
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sending you is worth the detour. Let me show you what I mean. In
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Acts chapter 16, the Apostle Paul is on his second missionary
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journey. He has a plan and it's really a good one. He is going
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to take the gospel into the Roman province of Asia. I mean,
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this isn't a whim. It's a strategic move and it's based on
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everything he knows. Listen to what Luke records in Acts 16
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verses 6 through 10. Next, Paul and Silas traveled through the
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area of Phrygia and Galatia, because the Holy Spirit had
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prevented them from preaching the word in the province of Asia
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at that time. Then, coming to the borders of Mysia, they
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headed north for the province of Bithynia. But again, the Spirit
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of Jesus did not allow them to go there. So instead, they went
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through Mysia to the seaport of Troas. That Paul had a vision. A
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man from Macedonia in northern Greece was standing there,
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pleading with him, "Come over to Macedonia and help us." So, we
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decided to leave for Macedonia at once, having concluded that
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God was calling us to preach the good news there. And look what
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happens there. Paul tries to go to Asia and God says no. He
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pivots north toward Bithynia and God says no again. Two closed
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doors in a row from the God who called him into ministry in the
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first place. Here's what's easy to Paul wasn't being rebellious
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or making a poor choice. He was doing his best to obey a calling
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and God was closing the very doors he thought he was supposed
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to walk through. That's because God had somewhere else in mind.
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The vision came in Troas, a man from Macedonia pleading for help.
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And Paul goes, "This redirect is the moment the Gospel crosses
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into Europe. It leads to Lydia, the first recorded European
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believer, and a jailer, and his whole family meeting Christ
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after a midnight earthquake in Philippi." None of it was Paul's
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plan. So, here's what I want you to hold on to when you find
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yourself in the same spot. First, resist the urge to assume
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everything you did was wrong. Sometimes, a closed door is
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correction. But often, like Paul, you were simply walking in the
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direction you thought was right and God redirected you, he had a
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better destination in mind. Second, pay attention to what's
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in front of you, instead of mourning what's behind you. Paul
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didn't park himself in Asia, sulking. He kept moving, and
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because he kept moving, he was in Troas when the vision came.
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Some of us are so fixed on the door that that we can't see the
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one God's trying to And a few years ago, a sergeant I was
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working with came to me in the middle of the night. He wanted
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to know if he could come over and talk. He said, "Well, I'm
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going to have to do anything. Let's just take a moment." And I
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asked him to tell in his voice that he was upset. So, I told
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him to come over, and I put on a pot of coffee. He had just been
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told during his that he was being moved from the patrol
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division to the civil division, where he'd be handing out civil
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papers. He felt demoralized. He was grieving the loss of his
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identity. So I had him come over to my kitchen table and ask him
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to list everything about the move that might be a potential
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positive. It wasn't easy for him, but he came up with a few things.
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A couple of months he called me again. He told me it was the
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best thing that could have happened to him. The new role
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was less stressful, and he was sleeping better at night because
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he was no longer on shift work. The door he didn't want to walk
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through turned out to be the one God had waiting for him. Then
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third, trust that God sees what you can't. Paul didn't know
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Macedonia was waiting, and he didn't know a jailer was about
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to meet Jesus in the middle of the night after an earthquake.
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He only knew that the door he wanted was closed. But God saw
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it all, and God sees yours, too. Now let's get back to Elena.
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Elena eventually stopped fighting the closed door and
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started paying attention to what was right in front of her. She
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realized she wasn't the only veteran stuck in this kind of
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limbo. There were others trying to find their footing in a world
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that no longer had a clear mission for them. She did
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something about it. What she did was she pulled together a team
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of engineers and and together they built Pathfinder. It's a
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platform that helps veterans find resources and connection
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often in a matter of minutes. The career Elena fought to keeps
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gone, but the mission she now has is reaching people she could
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have never reached from inside her old unit. Paul's closed
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doors in Asia weren't a sign he'd missed God. They were the
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very method God used to deliver them to the people he actually
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wanted them to reach. The same can be true for you. Here's
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today's challenge. Think about a closed door you're wrestling
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with right now. Maybe it's a job that didn't come through or a
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plan that fell apart. Today, ask God this If this was a redirect
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and not a where might you be leading me? Then, watch for
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what's right in front of you. Don't miss Troas while you're
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still grieving Asia.
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close one and open our eyes to what you have right here in
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front of us right now. In Jesus' name, Amen. If Daily Devotions
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It's usually a redirect and the place he's sending you is worth
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