What to Do When You've Been Treated Unfairly at Work
Key Takeaways
- Fretting over workplace injustices keeps a single event alive for years, doing far more damage to your spirit than the initial unfairness itself.
- Drawing on the inspiring example of Jocelyn Bell Burnell reminds us that a supervisor taking credit for a discovery cannot diminish decades of future excellent work.
- Psalm 37:1-3 commands us to 'fret not' about the wicked, recognizing that those who take unfair advantage operate on a clock that eventually runs out.
- The active command to 'trust in the LORD and do good' prevents resentment from shrinking your work ethic when you are passed over for a promotion.
- Your integrity and the quality of your work are never on loan from your employer, meaning you should keep doing your best even when nobody is handing out credit.
Someone less qualified got the promotion, or your idea showed up with another name on it. Learn what Psalm 37 says to stop doing, and the active command that keeps resentment from shrinking your work.
There are stretches when your workplace is fair, and there are stretches when it isn't. You watched somebody less qualified get the promotion. Your idea showed up in a meeting with another person's name attached to it. It is one thing to be treated unfairly. It is another thing to keep showing up on Monday and act like it never happened.
And here's where the damage gets done. You start running the thing on a loop, rehearsing what you should have said and doing the math on who knew about it and who said nothing. You drive home composing an email you will never send. The unfair thing happened once. The fretting happens every day, and that's the part that eats you.
This episode opens with Jocelyn Bell Burnell, a graduate student staring at long rolls of chart paper when she noticed a strange little signal, a pulse repeating with impossible regularity. She had found a pulsar, something no one had ever seen, and it would change astronomy. The discovery was hers. But when the Nobel Prize came in 1974, it went to her male supervisor, and her name was left off entirely.
Psalm 37:1-3 speaks straight into that: "Don't worry about the wicked or envy those who do wrong. For like grass, they soon fade away... Trust in the LORD and do good." Look at what David tells you to quit doing. Older translations say fret not. Fretting is a word for gnawing on something, and it keeps an injustice alive for years after the event that caused it is over. Then David gives his reason, and it's an argument about time. Like grass, they soon fade away. The person who took credit for your work is operating on a clock that runs out.
Then comes the part to write down. Trust in the LORD and do good. Two commands, and the second one is active. Keep doing your work well, even where nobody is handing out credit for it. That asks more of you than it sounds like, because the natural move after you've been passed over is to start giving less. You pull back an inch and nobody notices except you, and then your work slips. Psalm 37 blocks that exit. Your integrity is not on loan from your employer.
Bart shares his own version of this, the years at the sheriff's office when they brought in an instructor from another state to teach a class he was certified to teach, while departments across the country were flying him in to train their people. Bell Burnell took a longer road. She kept doing excellent science for decades, and in 2018 she gave away a three million dollar prize to help women and minority students become physicists.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER:
Why fretting does more damage than the unfair event itself The time argument David makes in verse 2 One active command that keeps resentment from shrinking your work
God sees what your manager never saw, and He is a truer judge than any HR department. Take it to God, and then go do good work.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What should I do when I am treated unfairly at work?
Psalm 37 instructs us to stop fretting and instead trust in the Lord and actively keep doing good work. Take the particulars of the situation to God, and refuse to let resentment cause your work ethic to slip.
Who is Jocelyn Bell Burnell and how does she relate to workplace injustice?
Jocelyn Bell Burnell discovered pulsars as a graduate student, but her male supervisor received the Nobel Prize for her work in 1974. Instead of remaining bitter, she spent decades doing excellent science and later used a $3 million prize to support underrepresented physics students.
What does Psalm 37 say about people who take credit for your work?
Psalm 37 compares those who do wrong to grass that soon fades away, reminding us that people who take unfair credit operate on a clock that will ultimately run out.
Jocelyn Bell Burnell was a graduate student staring
Bart Leger:at long rolls of chart paper when she noticed a strange
Bart Leger:little signal, a pulse repeating with impossible regularity. She
Bart Leger:had found something no one had ever seen, a pulsar, and it
Bart Leger:would change astronomy. The discovery was hers. She was the
Bart Leger:one who spotted it, night after night, and pressed to understand
Bart Leger:what it was. But when the Nobel Prize came a few years later, in
Bart Leger:1974, it didn't go to her. It went to her male supervisor, and
Bart Leger:her name was left off entirely. The truth was, the biggest
Bart Leger:discovery of her young life had just been handed to someone else,
Bart Leger:and everyone watched it happen. We'll come back to what she did
Bart Leger:with the rest of her life, but
Bart Leger:first, welcome to Daily Devotions for Busy Lives. I'm
Bart Leger:Bart Leger. When I was in the sheriff's office, they brought
Bart Leger:in an instructor from another state to teach a class Was
Bart Leger:certified to teach and had years of experience in it. That
Bart Leger:happened more than once, and here's the part of it that got
Bart Leger:under my skin. Departments a lot bigger than ours were flying me
Bart Leger:across the country to train their people. I was good enough
Bart Leger:for them, and apparently not good enough at home. It took me
Bart Leger:a while to get there, but I finally came to an understanding.
Bart Leger:Those other departments calling me was all the validation I
Bart Leger:needed. My own department didn't have to agree with it for it to
Bart Leger:be true. There are stretches when your workplace is fair, and
Bart Leger:there are stretches when it isn't. You watched somebody less
Bart Leger:qualified get the promotion. Your idea showed up in a meeting
Bart Leger:with another person's name attached to it. It's one thing
Bart Leger:to be treated unfairly, and it's another thing entirely to keep
Bart Leger:showing up on Monday and act like it never happened. And
Bart Leger:here's where that damage gets done. You start running it on a
Bart Leger:loop, rehearsing what you should have said, and wondering who
Bart Leger:knew and who said nothing. home composing an email you'll
Bart Leger:probably never send. The unfair thing happened once. The
Bart Leger:fretting, though, probably is going to happen every day, and
Bart Leger:that's the part of it that eats at you. David wrote a psalm
Bart Leger:about exactly this, Psalm 37, verses 1 through 3. Don't worry
Bart Leger:about the wicked or envy those who do wrong.
Bart Leger:Look at what he tells you to quit doing. Don't worry about
Bart Leger:the wicked or envy those who do wrong or those who take
Bart Leger:advantage. Older translations say fret not, and fretting is a
Bart Leger:word for knowing on something, and that is what it does to a
Bart Leger:person. It keeps an injustice alive for years after the event
Bart Leger:that caused it. It's over. Then David gives his reason, and it's
Bart Leger:an argument about time. Like grass, they soon fade away.
Bart Leger:telling you to look at the calendar. The person who took
Bart Leger:credit for your work is operating on a clock that runs
Bart Leger:out. Whatever he built with it is grass. And then comes the
Bart Leger:part I would have you write down somewhere. Trust in the Lord and
Bart Leger:do good. Two commands, and the second one's active. Do good.
Bart Leger:Keep doing your work Keep doing your work well, even where
Bart Leger:nobody is handing out credit for it. That asks more of you than
Bart Leger:it sounds like. The natural move after you've been passed over is
Bart Leger:to start giving less. You pull back an inch, and nobody notices
Bart Leger:except you. And then your work slips a little. Psalm 37 says,
Bart Leger:He is a truer judge than any HR department that ever wrote a
Bart Leger:policy. Jocelyn Bell Burrell could have spent the rest of her
Bart Leger:life bitter. Instead, she chose a different road. snub define
Bart Leger:her, and she kept doing excellent science for decades.
Bart Leger:She became one of the most respected astronomers alive, and
Bart Leger:she spent her life mentoring others. Then, in 2018, she was
Bart Leger:given a prize worth $3 million. She kept none of it. She gave
Bart Leger:the whole amount away to help women and minority students
Bart Leger:become the physicists the field had once passed by. The medal
Bart Leger:had gone to someone else. The work and the good she did with
Bart Leger:it were still hers. Look at that time frame, 50 years between the
Bart Leger:snub and the prize. And look at what she did with those 50 years.
Bart Leger:She spent them working, and she spent a good deal of herself
Bart Leger:building other people's careers while she did it. The medal went
Bart Leger:to someone else. Everything she built in the 50 years after it
Bart Leger:stayed hers, including $3 million she turned into other
Bart Leger:people's futures. Here's today's challenge. Take the unfair thing
Bart Leger:to God today and tell Him the particulars. What happened and
Bart Leger:who did it? He's not going to be shocked by any of it. Then, do
Bart Leger:the second half of the verse. Pick one piece of your work this
Bart Leger:week and do it better than the situation deserves because
Bart Leger:you're doing it for God and because it is who you are.
Bart Leger:Father, you saw what happened. You were in that meeting. You
Bart Leger:know who got the credit for it. judge than any committee or any
Bart Leger:HR department. For everybody listening who's been gnawing on
Bart Leger:something unfair for months now, take it off the loop tonight and
Bart Leger:keep them from growing lacks in their work. Do what you do with
Bart Leger:people who trust you and keep doing good anyway. In Jesus'
Bart Leger:name, amen. If Daily Devotions for Busy Lives has been an
Bart Leger:encouragement to you, would you take a minute and leave a rating
Bart Leger:and review? It helps more people find these devotions and it only
Bart Leger:takes a moment. I'd be so grateful. And thanks for joining
Bart Leger:me on Daily Devotions for Busy Lives. Remember, the unfair
Bart Leger:thing happened once and the fretting is what keeps it going.
Bart Leger:Take it to God and then go and do good work. Come back next
Bart Leger:time for more encouragement to help you live grounded in God's
Bart Leger:truth. Until then, God bless and have a great day.