June 29, 2026

When You've Been Wrong About Something Important

When You've Been Wrong About Something Important
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This episode explores the 'grace of changing your mind,' even when realizing you were wrong feels like an earthquake. Drawing on the story of Tom Tarrants and Saul on the Damascus Road, it frames correction as an act of divine mercy, encouraging humility in our beliefs while remaining anchored in the gospel.

Key Takeaways

  • Discovering you were wrong about something significant can feel destabilizing, like a personal earthquake.
  • Correction, though often uncomfortable, can be a profound act of God's mercy, preventing further error.
  • Embracing the 'grace of changing your mind' fosters spiritual growth and teachability.
  • Hold your convictions with an open hand: be sure of Christ, but humble about other interpretations.
  • The gospel—salvation by grace through faith alone—is the one absolute certainty Christians must hold firmly.

Sooner or later, most thinking Christians discover they were wrong about something they were sure of, and it feels like a small earthquake. This episode looks at the strange grace of changing your mind, and why being corrected, like Saul on the Damascus road, is one of the kindest things God does.

Sooner or later, most of us realize we were wrong about something we were certain of: a position we defended, or a verse we'd read one way for years. The discovery can feel like a small earthquake. It isn't only that one belief that shifts. Suddenly you're aware that if you were that sure and that wrong here, you might be wrong about things you've never even questioned. The ground feels less solid than it did an hour ago.

Tom Tarrants knew that kind of certainty before it cracked. As a teenager in 1960s Alabama, he was sure he was defending a Christian America, and that conviction led him into the Ku Klux Klan and, eventually, to a Mississippi prison cell with a thirty-year sentence. Even caught and nearly killed, he wasn't sorry. The change came later, alone in a cell with nothing to do but read. He picked up the Bible he thought had been on his side and met a Jesus he had never paid attention to, one who told him to love the very people he had spent his life hating. The certainty he had held like a weapon finally cracked, and the man who left that prison went on to co-pastor a church of the people he once called enemies.

It's the oldest pattern of grace there is. In Acts 9, Saul was breathing out threats, certain he was serving God as he hunted down Christians, until a light put him flat on the road and a voice asked, "Why are you persecuting me?" He didn't reason his way to a better position. He was knocked down and made to see what he had refused to see, and that was a mercy. He was sincerely, religiously wrong, certain his harm was holy, and the most loving thing God could do was stop him cold.

We don't usually think of correction that way. Being wrong feels like failure, a crack in our credibility. But for someone who loves the truth more than being right, the moment you finally see your error is a door, the light getting into a room you'd kept locked. The people who keep growing their whole lives are the ones who hold their certainties with an open hand: sure of Christ, and humble about the rest.

In this episode, host Bart Leger, drawing on 56 years of following Jesus, shares insights from his own experience of reading the Bible as if for the first time and rethinking long-held beliefs. He speaks about a freeing humility, acknowledging that there may be things we are sure of now that we'll understand differently in eternity. Yet, he emphasizes holding firmly to the one truth none of us can afford to be wrong about: the gospel, salvation by grace through faith alone in Jesus Christ.

By the time you finish listening, you'll discover:

  • Why discovering you were wrong can feel like the ground shifting under your feet
  • What Saul's experience on the Damascus road reveals about the mercy of correction
  • How to hold your convictions with an open hand while staying anchored in the gospel

Being wrong and finally seeing it is one of the doors God walks through. Hold your certainties with an open hand: sure of Christ, and humble about the rest.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why does realizing you're wrong feel like an earthquake?

When we discover we've been wrong about something we were certain of, it can feel like the ground is shifting beneath us, causing a sense of instability that extends to other deeply held beliefs.

How can being corrected be a form of God's mercy?

Correction can be an act of divine mercy because God, in His love, stops us from continuing down a harmful or mistaken path, allowing us to see the truth and redirect our steps.

What does the story of Saul on the Damascus road teach us about changing our minds?

Saul's dramatic encounter on the Damascus road shows that sometimes, profound change comes not through reasoning, but through a direct, divine intervention that breaks down our certainty and reveals a truth we refused to see.

How can I hold my beliefs with an open hand?

Holding your beliefs with an open hand means being firmly anchored in the core truths of the gospel while remaining humble and teachable about other interpretations or secondary doctrines.

What is the one certainty Christians should never be wrong about?

The one fundamental certainty Christians cannot afford to be wrong about is the gospel message: salvation is by grace through faith alone in Jesus Christ.

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In the late 1960s, a teenager in Mobile, Alabama,

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decided he knew exactly what God wanted, and what God wanted was

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a fight. His name was Tom Terrence. The South was in an

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upheaval over desegregation, and Tom was angry and looking for

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somewhere to put that anger. He found it in the literature

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passing around his high school, the pamphlets about a secret

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plot to destroy the white Christian America he thought he

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was defending. He met the man behind those ideas, and before

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long, he had joined the white knights of the Ku Klux Klan,

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which the FBI called the most violent terrorist group in the

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country. In his mind, he wasn't a He was a soldier doing the

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Lord's work, and the people he hated, black Americans and Jews

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alike, were the enemy. By 1969, Tom was one of the most wanted

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men in Mississippi, and late one summer he pulled up outside the

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home of a Jewish businessman in Meridian with a bomb, certain he

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was right where God wanted him. The police were waiting. There

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was a shootout. Tom was hit four times at close range, nearly

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killed, and hauled off to Parchman Prison with a 30-year

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sentence. And here's the thing. Even then, bleeding and caught,

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he wasn't sorry. He was still sure. So how does a man that

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certain ever come to that he had it all backward?

Bart Leger:

Welcome to Daily Devotions for Busy Lives. I'm Bart Léger. If

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you've recently discovered you were wrong about something you

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were sure of, there's a strange grace hiding in that. And I'll

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tell you where I stand. I've been a Christian for 56 years.

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For much of it, I held some things simply because I'd been

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taught them. And then I started reading the Bible as if for the

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first time, and some truths leaped off the page, making me

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rethink what I'd believed for years. It left me humbled. And

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there are things I'm sure of today that I'll get to heaven

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and probably find out I didn't have quite right. And that keeps

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me teachable. The one thing none of us can afford to be wrong,

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though, is about the gospel. That we're saved by grace,

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through faith, alone in Jesus Christ. You can't afford to get

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that wrong. Your eternity depends on it. There comes a

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point in most thinking Christians' lives when you

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realized you were wrong about something you were certain of. A

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position you'd defended for years. The discovery can make it

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feel like the earth is shaking beneath you. It isn't only that

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one belief that shifts. Suddenly, you're aware that if you were

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sure and that you were wrong here, you might be wrong about

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things you've never questioned. The most famous is in Scripture.

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Saul was so certain he was serving God that he was hunting

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down Christians and dragging them off in chains. Listen to

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Acts 9, verses 1 through 9. Meanwhile, Saul was uttering

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threats with every breath and eager to kill the Lord's

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followers. So he went to the high priest. He requested

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letters addressed to the synagogues in Damascus asking

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for their cooperation in the arrest of any followers of the

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way he found there. He wanted to bring them, both men and men,

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back to Jerusalem in chains. As he was approaching Damascus on

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this mission, a light from heaven suddenly shone down

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around him. He fell to the ground and heard a voice saying

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to him, Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me? Who are you,

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Lord? Saul And the voice replied, I am Jesus, the one whom you are

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persecuting. Now get up and go into the city, and you will be

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told what you must do. men with Saul stood speechless, for they

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heard the sound of someone's voice, but saw no one. Saul

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picked himself up off the ground, but when he opened his eyes, he

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was blind. So his companions led him by the hand to Damascus.

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blind for three days and did not eat or drink. Look at how Saul

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was turned around. He didn't reason his way to it. He was not

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flat and made to see what he'd refused to see. And I believe

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that was a mercy. That was God's mercy on the Apostle Paul. He

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was sincerely, religiously wrong and certain that the harm he was

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doing to the followers of Jesus was holy. And the most loving

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thing God could do was stop him cold. For someone who loves

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truth more than being right, the moment you see your error is a

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door, the light shining into a room you'd kept locked up. The

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people who keep growing hold their certainties with an open

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hand, sure of Christ and humble about the rest. The change in

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Tom Terrence didn't come in a courtroom or the hospital. It

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came later, after a failed escape landed him alone in a

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six-by-nine-foot cell with nothing to do but read. Tom read

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everything, and eventually he picked up the Bible, the book he

Bart Leger:

thought had been on his side all along. Reading it again, he met

Bart Leger:

a Jesus he had never paid attention to, one who told him

Bart Leger:

to love the very people he had spent his life hating. The

Bart Leger:

certainty he had carried like a weapon finally cracked, and the

Bart Leger:

hatred started to fall away. The man who left that prison eight

Bart Leger:

years later went on to co-pastor a church of the very people he

Bart Leger:

once called enemies. It's the oldest pattern of grace there is.

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On the road to Damascus, Saul was breathing out threats,

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certain he was doing God's work as he hunted down Christians,

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until a light put him flat on the ground and a voice asked,

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Why are you persecuting me? Being knocked down was the most

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merciful thing that could have happened to him. Sometimes, the

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kindest thing God does is stops us dead in our tracks and let us

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see, finally, that we're wrong. Here's today's challenge. Think

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of one thing. Think of one belief you hold to tightly.

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Maybe one of the tertiary, what we call the tertiary beliefs.

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Then, ask God a brave question. Lord, is there anything here

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I've gotten wrong? Open the scriptures and read the relevant

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parts slowly, as if, for the first time, willing to be

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corrected. on Christ, only on your certainty so that his truth

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can teach you and allow the Holy Spirit to bring things into the

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light of day. Father, thank you that you love us too much to

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leave us comfortable in our errors and that your correction,

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even when it knocks us flat, is really mercy. Give us the

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humility to want to be right with you more than to feel right.

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Keep us anchored in the gospel of your grace and teachable

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about everything else. Open the rooms we've kept locked and let

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your light in. In Jesus' name, amen. This podcast runs on the

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support. Thank you so much. And thanks for joining me on Daily

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Devotions for Busy Lives. Remember, being wrong and

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finally seeing it as one of the doors God walks through. Come

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back next time for more encouragement to help you live

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grounded in God's truth. Until then, God bless and have a great

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day.